So, if you’re joking about things like him being your boyfriend, he knows that you’re not actually joking. This is a way of beating around the bush and telling someone what you want to without actually saying it. When people don’t want to come right out and say how they feel, they sometimes resort to joking. He knows that you probably don’t feel right asking him on an official date, so you are just going to suggest something that feels like two friends spending time together.īut that’s only an excuse to get him along – and he knows that. So, if you ask him to “hang out” or do something casual together, he knows you are interested in him. However, if he is not asking you out, he knows you are probably getting frustrated. That’s just how it normally works, although it definitely has changed in recent decades. Usually, guys are the ones who ask the girls on dates. And, he thinks you are holding back in an attempt to show you that you are single and available – for him – too. He knows you want to know if he is single and available. But, if you refrain from talking about any of those topics, he will notice.Īn even more obvious sign is if you keep asking him about his dating life. If you are co-workers, friends, or in school together, most people can casually talk about who they are dating or who they are interested in pretty easily. If you’re sending him “good morning” and “good night” texts, that is pretty “relationship-y.” Or if you initiate a conversation late at night, he knows you are thinking about him until the wee hours of the night. Īnother texting habit that screams of your interest in him is when and how often you text him. So, what is the difference between the way people usually text and how they do it when they like someone? Well, if you are always *or usually* the one to text him first, that is a big sign that you like him. Texting is a normal thing that people do all the time. If you are leaving a building, but you ask him to wait for you so you can follow him out to the parking lot while keeping up the conversation, then you are “inviting yourself” to extend the interaction – otherwise known as “lingering.” 3. What does “lingering” actually look like? Here’s an example. If you make an obvious effort to keep the conversation going when you talk to him, then he knows you like him.Īny extension of interaction beyond the normal, polite chit-chat definitely tells him that there is more going on in your head than just small talk. Let’s say you work with a guy or go to school with him. So, keep an eye on your body language – because he is. So, he notices how close you sit to him, how much you smile, how much you touch him *and where*, how animated you are, and whether or not you look into his eyes – just for starters. Think about it, if you’re out at a restaurant, you can tell just by looking at a couple how interested they are in each other, right? The way you moveĪ person’s body language is a dead giveaway that someone is interested in them. If you are exhibiting any of these behaviors, then he probably knows you like him and have a big crush on him. Women do the same, right? So, guys are no different. When a guy is wondering if you like him or not, there are signs he looks for in your behavior. The signs he looks for to know if you like him
After that, we’ll talk about the signs he gives when he knows he likes you. So, what we’re going to talk about first are the signs a guy looks for from you that give away the fact that you like him. What we’re trying to say is, he probably figured out that you’re into him regardless. And if you wanted him to know that you’re interested in him, he probably got the hint as well! Well, if that’s the case, he probably caught on to your *cough* low-key *cough* creeping. Maybe you don’t want your crush to know that you’re into him. You’ve been throwing out hints to this guy, but you’re wondering… does he know I like him? Here are the signs you are giving him and ones he gives you too.Ĭan’t help thinking, “does he know I like him” or wondering if you’re being too obvious or too subtle?
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